I'm Melanie, a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and somatic sex educator. I see clients at my home in North London (N11) and online on Zoom, and I work with women, men and couples of any orientation, gender identity and relationship structure.

My work is education, not therapy. It is client-led, trauma-informed and moves at the pace you set. Much of it starts with noticing what your body actually wants, finding its felt yes and no, and learning to ask for what you want and to say no. For bodywork sessions that part happens fully clothed, and touch is always offered rather than assumed. Undressing or genital work only come in if you choose to work on them.

Tantric massage is a separate offering with different norms. It is a slow full-body massage that often includes body-to-body contact, so you are normally undressed, with draping always available. Intimate touch happens only if you ask for it, and I check again in the moment. The touch goes one way: you receive, and you do not touch me.

Prices: one-to-one sessions are £180 for 90 minutes or £240 for 2 hours (£120 per hour), in person or online; men can book a package of six sessions for £650. Couples sessions are £240 for 2 hours. Tantric massage is in person only, a minimum of 3 hours, £360. My monthly Women's Circle runs on Sunday mornings, 11:00 to 13:30, for up to eight women (£15, £20 or £25), fully clothed with no touch between participants. My six-week online course, Desire, Boundaries and the Body, is open to everyone whatever their gender (£300).

Training: Certified Sexological Bodyworker (2021), Certificate in Somatic Sexual Education, tantric massage training, over ten years of tantra training, and Clean Language facilitation. I am a former board secretary of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers, I supervise other practitioners, and I teach at the Somatic Sexology School.

To book, send me a message through the enquiry button to arrange a free discovery call on Zoom: 60 minutes, or 30 minutes for men. Nothing is decided on the call.