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So You Want to Start a Sensual Massage Business? Read this First
Who This Article Is For (And Why Working With Women Is Different) This article is primarily focused on sensual massage for women (and in some cases couples) offered by a male practitioner, although much of what’s discussed applies to female practitioners too. If your clients are going to be men, that is a very different proposition, and while many of the principles here are still useful, the power dynamic and the typical client motivations mean some of these issues are often

Pleasure Revolution
Jan 217 min read


Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire: Why Desire Feels Different and how it Works
If you have ever wondered why you or your partner want sex differently, or why desire no longer shows up the way it once did, you are not broken and neither is your relationship. At Sensual Bodyworks , we regularly support people who feel confused, rejected, or under pressure around intimacy. One of the most liberating shifts comes from understanding the difference between spontaneous desire and responsive desire , and learning how context and care influence arousal. This un

Pleasure Revolution
Jan 64 min read


Sexpert Meaning: What It Really Means and Why It Matters
In today’s more open conversation about sexuality, you may have seen the word sexpert and wondered what it actually means. At Pleasure Revolution, we believe that knowledge is a powerful tool for confidence, connection, and pleasure. Understanding the sexpert meaning can help you make more informed choices about your body, your relationships, and your wellbeing.

Pleasure Revolution
Jan 63 min read


Killing Kittens: A Female-Led Alternative to Traditional Sex-Positive Events
Killing Kittens is one of the most recognisable names in the global sex-positive and alternative nightlife scene. Founded in London, it has become known for hosting exclusive, members-only events that prioritise consent, female pleasure, and respectful interaction, setting it apart from many traditional adult clubs and play parties.

Pleasure Revolution
Jan 63 min read


Can Sensual Massage Save My Marriage?
This is rarely a casual question. Women don’t usually search “can sensual massage save my marriage?” out of curiosity. They search it after months, or years, of quiet reflection, unmet needs, guilt, confusion, and emotional exhaustion.

Pleasure Revolution
Jan 54 min read


OMGYES Review: A Guide to Female Pleasure
What a refreshing surprise it was to find OMGYes, a mini encyclopaedia of female arousal and pleasure.

Jools @ Sensual Bodyworks
Dec 31, 20254 min read


Guide for Women: How to Choose a Male Practitioner for Sensual Massage with Confidence
Booking a sensual massage with a male practitioner can be a deeply restorative experience — but knowing how to spot real professionalism versus careless or unsafe practice matters. This guide outlines clear green flags like transparent service descriptions, training, insurance, and authentic reviews, and red flags such as vague communication or inappropriate requests, to help you choose with confidence.

Jools @ Sensual Bodyworks
Dec 16, 20257 min read


Touch Deprivation: The Quiet Absence That Shapes Our Wellbeing
Human beings are designed for connection. From the moment we are born, touch is how we learn safety, comfort, and belonging. Yet for many adults today, meaningful physical contact has become rare.

Pleasure Revolution
Dec 11, 20253 min read


Tantric Massage vs Sensual Massage: What’s the Difference?
When exploring intimate bodywork, many people wonder whether sensual massage and tantric massage are the same thing. While the two share some surface similarities, such as slow touch, relaxation, and a calming atmosphere, they are distinct practices with different intentions, approaches, and outcomes.

Pleasure Revolution
Dec 1, 20255 min read


Discovering the Art of Shibari: A Journey into Sensuality
What Is Shibari? Originating in Japan, Shibari literally translates as “to tie.” It evolved from traditional rope techniques used by samurai as a martial art called Hojōjutsu, a method of restraining prisoners. Later, it transformed into a form of artistic and emotional expression. In modern sensual practice, Shibari uses soft ropes, often jute or hemp, to wrap, hold, and adorn the body in intricate patterns. It can be practiced in various ways: as an aesthetic meditation, a

Jools @ Sensual Bodyworks
Nov 22, 20255 min read


Impact of Sex Work on Personal Relationships: Challenges and Strategies
Sex work is real work. It can be empowering, lucrative, and even healing, for both client and provider. But let’s be honest: it’s not without its challenges, especially when it comes to personal relationships. One of the most common questions among both new and seasoned sex workers is whether, and how, their professional lives affect their private, sexual, and emotional connections. The short answer is yes: sex work can impact your personal sexual relationships. But that’s no

Pleasure Revolution
Nov 22, 20255 min read


The Nordic Model and UK Sex Work: A Dangerous Step Backwards
As UK lawmakers increasingly consider adopting the Nordic Model to regulate sex work, it’s essential for everyone—especially those working in or alongside the adult services industry—to understand what this model entails, who is proposing it, and the real-world consequences it has produced elsewhere. At Sensual Bodyworks, we advocate for the safety, dignity, and autonomy of everyone in the industry. This blog aims to break down what the Nordic Model means, why it's controvers

Pleasure Revolution
Nov 22, 20255 min read


Bonnie Blue, 1000 Men and Me, and What the Outrage Reveals About Sex in the UK
In summer 2025, the documentary 1000 Men and Me: The Bonnie Blue Story thrust Bonnie Blue, an adult-industry performer known for provocative extremes, into the British cultural spotlight.

Pleasure Revolution
Nov 1, 20256 min read


When Clients Become Emotionally Attached: Ethical Boundaries for Pleasure Practitioners
In pleasure-based, somatic, and intimacy-focused work, emotional connection is part of the process. As a practitioner, your presence, attunement, and care can feel profoundly healing to clients, especially those who have experienced neglect, trauma, or disconnection. However, when a client develops emotional attachment or romantic feelings toward a practitioner, it can create ethical, emotional, and professional risks if not handled consciously. Understanding why attachment h

Pleasure Revolution
Aug 2, 20253 min read


Exploring the Complexities of Sex Work in the UK
Sex work remains a complex, often controversial subject in many parts of the world, and the United Kingdom is no exception. In recent years, there has been growing conversation around what actually constitutes sex work, how it's regulated, and the experiences of those involved. In the UK, the legal framework surrounding sex work is nuanced, riddled with contradictions, and influenced heavily by societal attitudes, politics, and shifting cultural narratives. This blog post exp

Pleasure Revolution
Apr 13, 20256 min read


Sexologists vs Sex Therapists: Understanding the Differences
A sexologist and a sex therapist both operate within the realm of human sexuality, yet they differ in their focus, training, and...

Pleasure Revolution
Jan 15, 20252 min read


Hoar Cross Hall Spa Review (2026): Luxury Spa Break, Facilities, Overnight Stays & What to Expect
Surrounded by countryside and beautifully maintained grounds, Hoar Cross Hall offers an experience that feels premium throughout, whether you visit for a day or stay overnight.

Pleasure Revolution
Jan 2, 20253 min read


Anorgasmia in Women
Anorgasmia is the name given when someone finds it difficult ti reach orgasm in in some caes unable to reach orgasm at all.

Jools @ Sensual Bodyworks
Sep 15, 20245 min read


What Are the Five Love Languages
If you have you ever been in a relationship where you just can't seem to understand why your partner feels unappreciated despite your efforts to show love and affection, you're certainly not alone. It's likely that you too did not feel appreciated if this was the case. The reason is that way each of us express love and feel loved varies, this phenomenon is known as love languages. Understanding your own love language and that of your partner can help improve communication an

Jools @ Sensual Bodyworks
Jun 30, 20244 min read


The Wheel of Consent
I have learned a great deal since begining Sensual Bodyworks in 2019 which now seems a lifetime ago. The learning never stops and it's an ongoing process and mistakes have been made along the way, but something I came across early on was the Wheel of Consent. It really helped me frame how I worked and I think it can be of use to many people, especially if exploring with others. The Wheel of Consent was designed as a tool to help individuals understand and navigate the dynamic

Pleasure Revolution
May 7, 20244 min read
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